Dogs depend on their parents for all their needs, including food, veterinary attention, grooming, and exercise. It's only reasonable to be concerned when you observe a friend or family member isn't properly caring for their dog.
While making sure their dog is well-cared for might be your priority, the last thing you want is to alienate your loved one, especially if they are going through a difficult time. How you express your worries could impact how open the person is to your offer of help.
Before taking action in cases where you're unsure whether neglect is taking place, it's crucial to investigate first. For instance, you might be worried about how much exercise the dog is getting, only to discover after speaking with your loved one that their work schedule only allows for late-night strolls.
Depression can cause someone to disregard their own needs and their dog's. If depression affects your loved one's ability to provide adequate dog care, ensure that you support them with empathy. That includes speaking with them regularly, acknowledging their emotions, finding out what support they require, and urging them to get treatment from a professional.
If your loved one rejects your offer to help, respect their wishes, except in situations where they or their dog are in imminent danger. Reassure them that you are here to help if they need anything now or in the future.